Breakups and Libra




Of all the star signs, Libras are probably the least likely to initiate a breakup. They hate confrontations and ending relationships of all kinds tends to be quite hard for them. However irritating they may find you, Libras are good at sweeping contentious issues under the rug and hiding their discontent behind a sweet smile. They're also big procrastinators and making their mind up to dump you can take them a very long time. 


So what exactly would push an easygoing Libra into finally calling things off? Well, most probably  your lack of romantic commitment, which is by far the biggest dealbreaker for this sign. Libras aren't interested in part-time lovers: what they want is a full-on relationship with someone who's willing to put them first in their life. If you fail to offer a Libra sufficient companionship and quality time, your love affair won't last for long.

What you need to understand is that if you’re taking a Libra for granted, treating them badly or generally not pulling your weight in the relationship, sparks are definitely going to fly! Although prepared to put up with a lot, one thing this sign simply won't tolerate is injustice. Libras rarely go out of their way to start a fight but true to their symbol - the Scales - they'll assert themselves quite vigorously to restore a state of balance when a situation is clearly unfair.

If your relationship with a Libra has ended, how easy will it be to rebuild it again? Here the good news is that of all the star signs, Libra is the sign most open to persuasion and most willing to make the peace. Certainly, you're more likely to stay on good terms with your Libra ex than any other former lover. Because harmony is so important to them, at the very least they'll probably want to keep you as a friend.


To win back a Libra, all that's needed is a little bit of give and take and the willingness to come to a mutual understanding. Libras are always happy to work out an acceptable compromise but be warned, you'll need to be ready to make some major concessions. These people are smooth operators and their bargaining skills are legendary. Their true brilliance lies in their ability to make you believe you've come out on top, whereas in reality you've had to give quite a lot away.

You'll never get back with a Libra by arguing. These people are turned off by aggression and inflexibility, and in any case their dazzling charm conceals a razor-sharp intellect that's virtually impossible to beat. Instead, begin by apologizing profusely (even if you don't think you've done anything wrong), agreeing with everything they have to say and declaring your undying devotion. Words of love and reconciliation will rarely fail to win back a Libra's heart.


• Respect their need for harmony and be gentle, kind and good-mannered.
• Never push them into decisions before they're good and ready - it'll only drive them away.
• Always be there for them - loneliness and neglect are the biggest deal-breakers for this sign.