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Breakups and Gemini


   


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BREAKUPS AND GEMINI





WHY MIGHT YOU WANT TO BREAK UP WITH A GEMINI?

The number one reason why you might want to break up with a Gemini will probably be their unfaithfulness. This can take many forms, ranging at worst from actually sleeping with somebody else, to just flirting around with other people when they’re supposed to be exclusively with you. In either case, the implication is you’re not very important in their life, leaving you with the feeling you’ve been taken for a fool.

Alternatively, you may want to break up with a Gemini simply because you've grown tired of their unreliability. Gemini probably has the worst record of all the Star Signs for altering arrangements at short notice, breaking promises for no good reason and constantly changing their standpoint on just about everything until you no longer know who or what they are. 

Communication breakdowns are another underlying cause of breakups with Geminis. Despite having a very clever way with words, they’re notorious for using them to confuse and deceive people to their own advantage. If your Gemini is forever telling you sweet little lies and talking in riddles, you may decide you need somebody more straightforward and plain speaking in your life. 


HOW SHOULD YOU GO ABOUT BREAKING UP WITH A GEMINI?

To break up with a Gemini, just tell them in brief, logical and unemotional terms why you’ve decided it’s the end of the road for your relationship. No need to go into long explanations – they don’t want and can’t handle a ‘long conversation’. 

Breaking up with a Gemini will go best if you try to be as light-hearted as possible (even though secretly your heart is breaking) and above all avoid angry recriminations. If you want to stay on good terms with a Gemini after a breakup, it will be much easier if you avoid getting into heavy stuff.

At the same time, though, you’ll have to make it ultra clear to them that you’re not joking. Otherwise, because Geminis never take anything too seriously, there’s a risk they’ll think you’re just playacting or teasing them.

WHAT SHOULD YOU EXPECT IF YOU BREAK UP WITH A GEMINI?

Fortunately, you don’t have to worry too much about hurting a Gemini’s feelings when you break up with them. As one of the most logical and detached of all the Star Signs, Geminis are probably less emotionally affected by breakups than anyone else you might know. Also, because they’re so adaptable, they’ll be quick to move on without wasting time crying over spilled milk. 

Of all the Zodiac Signs, a Gemini is one of the most likely to want to keep your friendship after a breakup. In fact, a fair proportion of a Gemini’s vast social circle consists of former lovers with whom they’re still on good terms.


REASONS FOR A GEMINI BREAKING UP WITH YOU

When a Gemini breaks up with you, often it’s not because of anything you’ve done wrong, but simply due to their low boredom threshold, their restlessness and their need for endless variety. When a Gemini stops calling or tells you it’s over, it’s usually because things have become too dull and monotonous between you, and/or someone more exciting has come along. 

In particular, it can be your lack-luster conversation that a Gemini will start to find boring and will spell the beginning of the end of your relationship with them. If you’ve run out of things to talk about, or your topics of discussion have become too mundane and humdrum, you need to sharpen your wits and your conversation skills in order to provide your Gemini with the high level of mental stimulation which is so important to them.

A Gemini might also be motivated to break up with you if you’ve been a bit too demanding and pushing too hard for a commitment. You’re asking for trouble if you try to curtail a Gemini’s freedom by fencing them in or bossing them around. These social butterflies won’t let themselves be pinned down by anyone – not even you!

HOW A GEMINI IS LIKELY TO BREAK UP WITH YOU

If you’re dumped by a Gemini, rest assured you won’t be the first person it’s happened to. The symbol of Gemini, the Twins, reflects this Sign’s duality and its tendency towards fickle-heartedness in matters of love. Certainly, Gemini is the most flighty of all the Zodiac Signs with one of the worst records for relationship breakups. 

At first you might not even realize a Gemini wants to break up with you because they’ll carry on being just as friendly and chatty as ever. On the other hand you may notice that their customary teasing has started to become a lot less funny and friendly and rather more cruel and hurtful. They definitely won’t end things by sitting down with you for that ‘big conversation’. In fact they’ll do everything they can to avoid an emotional confrontation by just never being available.

However, if you’re dumped by a Gemini, don’t automatically assume it’s goodbye forever. Unpredictable and prone to sudden reversals, your Gemini lover may soon tire of their latest conquest and start missing your company again. Of all the Star Signs, Gemini is one of the most likely to change their mind over a breakup, sometimes repeatedly. Indeed Gemini relationships are often of the on-off kind – great fun for them but much harder for you.


HOW TO WIN BACK A GEMINI

Making a Gemini laugh is by far the best way to win them back after a relationship breakup. No matter what has happened between you, if you can find something vaguely funny about the situation and show them you’re prepared to joke about it, they’ll be much more open to taking you back again.

The worst way of all to try to win back a Gemini is to appeal to their emotions. Logical and detached by nature, Geminis relate to others more through their head than their heart, and the hard truth is they don’t care all that much about your feelings. So forget the tears, anger and histrionics. A naughty love letter – cleverly worded and at the same time both humorous and seductive – is a far better way to turn them on again.

Keep the lines of communication between yourself and your Gemini ex fully open to boost your chances of winning them back. This Star Sign has an insatiable appetite for information and can’t resist the opportunity for an entertaining conversation. So keep drip feeding them with juicy titbits of news, gossip and knowledge likely to be particularly important to them – this is a great way of retaining their interest and ultimately winning them back again. 





THREE WAYS TO AVOID BREAKUPS WITH GEMINIS

• Don't take their little indiscretions too seriously - they're probably only joking.
• Never attempt to box them in or clip their wings - their freedom is very important to them.
• Ring the changes - boredom is the biggest deal-breaker for this sign.