'Kiss and Make-Up' Sample for Jessica Biel with Justin Timberlake
Feeling a little vulnerable is all part and parcel of the process of two people falling in love. What's not so good is if our insecurities start turning one or the other of us into a control freak. When this happens - as it may do here - it spells trouble with a capital T!
Due to the compulsive attraction likely to exist between yourself and Justin, you may have an unusually powerful hold over each other and a deep-seated anxiety about losing each other. Certainly Justin seems to bring out a possessive streak in you, and this could lead you to behave in a manipulative manner in an attempt to keep him by your side.
Sure, you may know in your heart of hearts that he's much too dependable and responsible a guy ever to deliberately mess you around. But at times your fears whisper something different in your ear - and then you may be unable to stop yourself from playing little power games as a means of asserting your control.
Be aware though, that there's only so much of this kind of stuff that Justin is likely to be willing to tolerate in a partner. The fact is that by coming across as too heavy and demanding, you run the risk of driving him away and - here's the rub - of bringing about the very thing you most want to avoid!
Put things right by being much more allowing and more prepared to accept that whatever will be, will be. Because, ironically, it's only by letting go of the need to hang on to this relationship that you'll give it the best possible chance of succeeding!