Breakups and Sagittarius




Breakups with Sagittarius are often triggered by this sign's basic lack of sensitivity. Sagittarians are notorious for putting their foot in their mouth and trampling on others' feelings. What's particularly irritating is that although they're happy to point out all your failings, because they tend to be rather self-righteous it's unusual for them to admit to their own.


Although good at seeing the bigger picture, a Sagittarius can rarely be bothered with details and their judgment is often faulty. At heart, most Sagittarians are inveterate gamblers - even the more circumspect and sensible ones! If you dump a Sagittarius it may well be because of their inappropriate risk-taking which has rebounded badly on you.

No question, however, the most likely reason for deciding to end a relationship with a Sagittarius is their resistance to commitment - although that's not to say it's their heart they're unwilling to surrender, just their independence. As one of the most passionate and generous signs of the Zodiac, fiery Sagittarius is perfectly capable of maintaining a long-term romantic relationship. But because of its adventurous, wanderlust personality, what Sagittarius can’t promise is always to be there for you.

What you need to understand is that nothing enrages this sign more than being tied down or fenced in. For this reason, if a Sagittarius dumps you it's often because they've had enough of you trying to curtail their freedom to roam. Know the score from the start if you get involved with a Sagittarius: This isn’t someone to tolerate any kind of restriction, so if you’re a control freak, you’d better learn to loosen up and let go.

But perhaps the number one dealbreaker for Sagittarius is betrayal or lack of honesty. If a Sagittarian catches you out lying or behaving deviously or shabbily, they may find it hard ever to respect you again. Highly principled by nature with a fetish for truthfulness, this sign is big on moral standards. If you fail to live up to them, you're likely to be treated to one of Sagittarius's notorious tongue-lashings, then unceremoniously shown the door.


To win back a Sagittarius ex, take a leaf out of their book and be scrupulously honest. Tell them how you’re feeling and what you’d like to happen next without resorting to manipulation, deviousness or games playing – all of which are guaranteed to make things even worse. Be sure to act fast though, before footloose Sagittarius has disappeared over the horizon in search of its next adventure, never to be seen again!


• Don't be offended by their outspokenness - their bark is always worse than their bite.
• Respect their need for personal freedom and never attempt to tie them down. 
• Always behave with integrity - dishonesty is the biggest deal-breaker for this sign.