How to Attract an Aries Man




To get an Aries man to fall in love with you, it's important to appeal to his inner hero and give him the chance to prove he's a red-blooded he-man. The following five clever tips show you how!


To attract an Aries man, be sure to come across as independent, feisty and assertive, but not so much so as to undermine his authority (he prefers to be boss) or pose a threat to his (usually fairly large) ego. Aries men aren't interested in a meek and mild 'yes' woman, preferring a partner with a definite mind of her own who knows how to look out for herself. But to make an Aries guy fall in love with you, you have to get the critical balance just right. When push comes to shove, and it's a question of which one of the two of you gets their own way and which one does not, you'll need to be willing to give in gracefully and let him call the shots. Because the Aries man is a born leader, to have any chance of succeeding romantically with him you have to show willing to follow his lead.


Because the Aries man favors the direct approach, you should make it crystal clear you have the hots for him, rather than just hoping he'll get the hint. He's brain dead when it comes to subtleties and will never get the message that you're interested if you keep beating around the bush. Don't, however, commit the fatal mistake of making yourself too easily available and denying him the fun of the chase. Ruled by Mars, the god of war, Aries is the sign of the warrior and men born under this star sign like to feel they have fought for, and conquered, their woman rather than have everything handed to them on a plate. The key to seducing an Aries man is to flirt outrageously with him in the first instance and then, when you've captured his attention, sit back and wait for him to make the next move.


Always be truthful, even if it feels a bit embarrassing or you're worried about causing offence. The Aries man doesn't hold back when it comes to expressing his emotions and he'll feel more comfortable with you if you do the same. As one of the most passionate guys around, when he's in love he won't hesitate to openly show his affection and will expect you to be just as honest and straight down the line. An Aries man isn't into playing mind games and hates any kind of romantic deviousness or pretence. Not only will he not 'get' it, but you also risk permanently turning him off. If you've done something to upset him, he'll let you know in no uncertain terms. Quick to lose his temper, it doesn't, however, last for long. An Aries guy doesn't hold grudges and will want you to be equally willing to forgive and forget.


Don't under any circumstances try to make him jealous in the belief he's more likely to fall in love with you. Although this is a seduction tactic that works well on some star signs, it's the kiss of death to a budding relationship with an Aries man. Nothing is more likely to arouse this guy's wrath than romantic two-timing or disloyalty. He has to be number one in your eyes, and anything less will quickly make him lose interest. Personally, however, an Aries man will expect you to allow him lots of freedom. Because he isn't the type who ever wants to be tied down, he shies away from controlling, manipulative women likely to pose a threat to his independence. In order to attract an Aries man, you have to make it clear from the start you have no intentions of trying to tie him down.


Generate an atmosphere of excitement and anticipation and, most importantly, be sure to keep it going. The Aries man loves the thrill of a new relationship, but as soon as it begins to get a bit routine and monotonous, the appeal rapidly wears off for him. With lots of energy and enthusiasm for starting things, he's not so good at staying the course and easily tends to get bored. With this in mind, the key to unlocking an Aries guy's libido - and keeping the flame of his passion alive - is to continually present him with fresh challenges that get his adrenaline pumping. Being spontaneous - acting on the spur of the moment, making last minute plans, forever surprising him with the unexpected, especially where sex is concerned - is the secret of making an Aries man fall in love with you over and over again.


The main problem you face when trying to seduce an Aries man is his inbuilt resistance to being seduced! With his ‘caveman’ approach to courtship, this guy definitely wants to be the hunter, not the prey. Going all out on the offensive to get him into bed is clearly a big mistake, then. Instead you have to find subtle ways of arousing his ardor to the point that he can’t stop himself from throwing you over his shoulder and dragging you back to his lair!