Sex with a Libra



Libra’s interest in sex usually starts early. Because relationships are of such major significance to those born under this sign, many Librans find themselves a boyfriend or girlfriend at an early age. From then onwards they’re never without a 'significant other' for more than about five minutes. A single Libran rarely feels complete: they’re always searching for their other half to balance them out.

It’s not necessarily the physical aspect of sex that appeals most to these people, though. As an Air sign, a strong mental connection and good communication in a romantic relationship is equally – if not more – important than sexual desire to Libra. What a Libran is looking for is not just a lover, but someone who will also be their closest friend.

What you need to understand is that the aspect of give and take is fundamental to Librans. Sexually they aim to provide full satisfaction and will expect the same in return. They’re happy to be either on the giving end or the receiving end of sex – all that matters is that things are fair and equal. Coarseness and aggression is a big-turn off, though: Libra isn't a sign that likes to play rough.

One of the easiest star signs to fall in love with, it’s hard not to be seduced by that irresistible Libran smile. Don’t let their flirtatiousness give you the wrong idea though. Libras are charming and friendly with almost everyone, and simply because they chatted you up, it doesn’t mean they want to jump into bed with you now.

You see, it’s incredibly easy to get your sexual wires badly crossed with this sign. Often accused of lacking in sincerity, it’s simply that Librans' charm and politeness sometimes prevent them from being honest and outspoken. Rather than rudely tell you to get lost, they would rather smooth things over: harmony means too much to most Librans to risk an ugly scene.

Knowing where you stand with a Libran can be very confusing. Their notorious indecisiveness – the result of their tendency always to weigh issues lengthily in the balance – and their pathological difficulty in saying yes or no make it hard for others to understand what they want sexually at times, and even harder for them!

Generally good looking, with a great sense of style and the best one-on-one skills in the Zodiac, it’s not surprising that Libra is among the star signs most in demand as a date. In fact the biggest mistake you can make with a Libran is to neglect them or leave them on their own for long. You’ll be replaced before you know it: their love life is far too important to them to waste time crying when there are so many more fish in the sea.


Unattached Libras generally find it very hard to turn down sexual opportunities – and they certainly get their fair share of them due to their attractive appearance and charming personalities. When part of a couple, though, a Libra will rarely jeopardize a happy relationship by physically cheating on a lover. If they are unfaithful, it’s most likely to take the form of mental infidelity – although this only tends to happen when they’re not getting enough intellectual stimulation from their regular partner.


Libra's sexual style clicks best with Aries, Gemini and Aquarius and clashes most with Cancer and Capricorn.


Learn more about Libra sexual compatibility with the 12 Star Signs. Select your Star Sign:

WHAT'S SEXY ABOUT LIBRA: its charm; its diplomacy; its congeniality.
WHAT'S NOT: its laziness; its indecisiveness; its shallowness.