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How to Attract a Scorpio Man




Because a Scorpio man's heart is notoriously hard to conquer, it takes a lot of shrewd cunning and determination to get him to fall in love with you. These seven clever seduction tips show you exactly how!


The number one tip for attracting a Scorpio man is to create an intriguing air of mystery about yourself. He'll find you much more fascinating, and be keen to get to know you better, if you hold back at first from revealing everything about your life. Nothing appeals more to the Scorpio male than solving difficult puzzles and uncovering hidden information. If you make things too easy for him by presenting yourself as an open book, he'll quickly lose interest in you. If, on the other hand, you give him a bit of a challenge - which no Scorpio man can ever resist - he'll find it impossible to keep away. Be very careful though, not to be dishonest in any way. A little reticence is fine, but if a Scorpio discovers you've been telling him actual untruths, you may have ruined your chance of seducing this guy.


A Scorpio man is unlikely to be attracted to someone who has deceived him or taken him for a fool, so play your cards wisely to win this guy's heart. Because this Star Sign finds it hard to forgive and forget, once you've given a Scorpio man reason to think he can no longer trust you, he will probably be turned off for ever. However good you may consider yourself at getting away with little white lies, be aware that you'll always be found out by a Scorpio. These guys have a fearsome talent for ferreting out all kinds of secrets and misinformation. If there's something in your life you feel ashamed of or uncomfortable about, it's far better to be totally upfront with a Scorpio man than try to massage the facts in some way. Scorpio men have a lot of respect for honesty, but only contempt for liars and cheats.


You don't actually need to be particularly good looking to attract a Scorpio man. But what you do need to have in bucketloads is sex appeal, i.e. the kind of erotic charm that will fire up his libido and make him want to get as close as possible to you. To boost your sex appeal to a Scorpio man, try subtly flirting with him by maintaining steady eye contact while holding come-to-bed thoughts in your mind. He'll immediately pick up on them because he's quite psychic, and if he's interested he'll shoot some straight back to you. Don't act like a cheap vamp or you'll turn him off, but at the same time you shouldn't come across as too prissy and prudish. Because you'll soon discover that sex is a Scorpio man's chief preoccupation, you'll need to show him you're completely comfortable with all aspects of it too.


While sex obviously means a lot to most guys, as you've read above it's possibly the most important thing about a relationship in the eyes of a Scorpio man. For this reason, in order to seduce a Scorpio man, it's important to send out strong signals that you find him sexually attractive. But at the same time you shouldn't commit the cardinal error of making yourself too easily sexually available to him. Instead of throwing yourself at a Scorpio man, tease him a little by making him guess about whether you will or you won't and playing a bit hard to get. Remember that the Scorpio man loves a challenge and soon gets bored if everything is handed to him on a plate. Because he's the kind of guy who is even more excited by the chase than the conquest, to keep him on the hook, best make him wait as long as you can for sex.


Be classy and dignified, and make like you're a person of real substance in order to attract a Scorpio man. Scorpios demand the highest quality in all aspects of their life, not least in their love life, and won't waste their time on you if you come across as at all flaky or bargain basement. If you own any expensive stuff, be sure to flaunt it. If you don't, talk about your aspirations for acquiring some soon. Similarly, if your job is worth bragging about, brag away! Or if it's not, big up your future prospects. Scorpios are attracted to strong minded people with plenty of guts who know where they're going in life. So don't be afraid to blow your own trumpet, and if you've successfully overcome some kind of hardship, let him know about that too. A Scorpio man loves winners and survivors and if you act like one he'll be more attracted to you.


To be someone a Scorpio man could fall in love with, you have to show you're capable of standing up for yourself. Expect him to give you plenty of chances to prove this as he tests out how easily he can push you around! Scorpio men get a big kick out of playing little power games in their relationships, and they prefer a bit of decent opposition rather than being allowed to win too easily. Just because you've heard all those stories about Scorpio being the biggest control freak of the Zodiac, don't assume he'll be attracted to you if you constantly bow to his command. If you give way too readily to a Scorpio man, you'll always be under his thumb - and the relationship won't last very long. There's no fun in it for him - or for you - if you're the kind of yes person who is too wimpish to hold their own.

To attract a Scorpio man, respect his need for privacy and don’t be too nosy. The best way to win a Scorpio man’s confidence – and his heart – is by never doing or saying anything that makes him feel threatened and unsafe. Although they’d hate you to know it, these guys suffer from all kinds of inner
insecurities which they’re careful to hide behind a tough outer skin. Scorpio men like to be in a position of maximum power which they achieve by disclosing as little as possible about themselves (although of course they want to know all about you!). If you pry too deeply into a Scorpio man’s life or start asking too many personal questions too soon, he’ll get very suspicious of your motives, go massively on the defensive, and pull back from getting involved with you. It pays to contain your curiosity about this fascinating fella until he trusts you enough to open up of his own accord.


As the most sexually magnetic and hypnotically alluring of all the Star Signs, a Scorpio man can make you want him so badly you’d do just about anything to make him yours. But sadly, getting him to feel the same way about you is a whole different ball game. Even when you think you’ve finally nailed it, the odds are you’ll be badly mistaken. Because the hard truth is you never really know what’s going on in a Scorpio man’s frustratingly enigmatic heart.