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How to Attract a Libra Man




To attract a Libra man and make him fall in love with you, you have to convince him you're his perfect 'other half' who will make his life complete. These seven clever seduction tips show you how!


Perhaps the number one tip for attracting a Libra man and getting him to fall in love with you is simply to become his best friend. Because love and friendship are closely intertwined in his eyes, it's unusual for a Libra man to become romantically involved with someone who isn't also a good buddy. The first step towards winning a Libra man's heart is to make yourself indispensable to him as a close confidante - someone he feels really understands him and whom he can trust with all his secrets. Do this by creating lots of little opportunities to share some quality one-on-one time in quiet settings, and encourage him to open up to you by first revealing some personal things about yourself. Slowly but surely your Libra man will start to believe he can't manage without you - and hopefully romance will follow on.


Attracting a Libra man is quite easy, but pinning him down is a somewhat harder task. Men born under Libra love to flirt and be flirted with and are rarely without a date for long. These guys are extremely popular since they're so charming and such good company. So if the one you want is available, you'll need to act fast before someone else snares him first. Don't, however, make the cardinal mistake of pressurizing a Libra man into some kind of commitment. He prefers to take his own sweet time over the game of love, keeping his options open for as long as possible. Notorious for their indecisiveness, Libra men are also prone to cancelling dates at a moment's notice. You'll need to take this in your stride if you're pursuing a Libra man, and be ready to wait until he recognizes you're the 'One'!


Never be aggressive, rude or loud-mouthed if you want to attract a Libra man. Most men born under the Star Sign of Libra hate arguments, find 'heavy' emotions hard to deal with, and are scared off by uncontrolled outbursts. These guys are peace loving types looking for a quiet life, who will go to any lengths to avoid an ugly confrontation. You should be aware that shouting, swearing and generally behaving in a gross way will have a negative effect on your chance of winning a Libra man's heart. Because he's born under an Air Sign, the Libra male prefers to talk through issues calmly and rationally - and will expect you to do the same. Certainly, he's more likely to be attracted to you if you appear open-minded, level-headed and someone who's willing to give and take.


Be a good conversationalist. Demonstrating that you can talk intelligently and amusingly on a variety of subjects is an excellent way to attract a Libra guy's interest and make him want to spend time with you. Good communication is at the top of this man's list of priorities when it comes to choosing a romantic partner. Because Libra men find it hard to think clearly without someone they can constantly bounce ideas off, they're looking for a partner who's a good listener. Before making even the smallest of decisions, many Libras have a compulsive need to run through all the pros and cons over and over again. You'll be in with a good chance of winning this guy's heart if you show you're the kind of person who's willing to lend an ear - without getting bored or impatient - if necessary for hours on end.


Bear in mind, however, that although a Libra man will be drawn to your mind, physical beauty is equally - if not more - important to this guy. Ruled by Venus and known for their personal attractiveness, Libra is a Sign that likes to surround themselves with nice things and beautiful people. Rarely will a Libra man be attracted to a partner who isn't at least as cute and stylish as himself. For this reason, in order to capture a Libra man's heart you should make a big effort with your appearance. When you're around this man, make a point of wearing your most flattering clothes, your best jewelry and your most alluring fragrance. The Libra man wants a decorative companion by his side who will complement, or enhance, his own good looks. Be someone he can be proud of by making sure you fit the part.

Because he was born under the most culturally aware of all the Star Signs, a Libra man's interests will usually include music, art and literature, and in order to attract him you will need to show you're a fan of these kinds of things too. For sure, you'll considerably reduce your chances of winning a Libra man's heart if you come across as a philistine with no appreciation of the finer things in life. So try to sound knowledgeable by doing your homework and wising up on his preferred genre of music, books or movies, even if it's not really your thing. Many Libra men also have a keen interest in décor, so asking his advice on a color scheme is a good conversation icebreaker too. Aesthetics are very important to a Libra man. So let him know what you find most beautiful in life and he's more likely to find you beautiful too. 

Even the most seemingly pragmatic and realistic of Libra men has a strong inner sense of romance just waiting to be unlocked - by YOU! For this reason, the secret of snaring a Libra man lies in getting him into a romantic mindset right from the start. Steering the conversation around to a rom-com movie you've recently enjoyed and think he might like would be a good starting point. Then, when you've fixed up a date with him, be sure to set the scene carefully with all the right props. A candlelit dinner would be perfect of course, but might be too much, too soon. Other options include going stargazing, watching the sun set, or visiting a botanical garden - always followed up of course with a sweet little message of affection from you to him. If none of this works, frankly it's a bad sign. Because there's no such thing as a Libra who isn't a true romantic at heart, it probably means he's just not into you.

You may well think you’ve succeeded in winning a Libra man's heart when in reality you couldn’t be more wrong! Because this guy is a master schmoozer, it’s only too easy to assume he’s fallen madly in love with you when in his eyes you’re no more than a minor squeeze. The hard truth is that most Libra men are shockingly flirtatious with just about everyone they meet – and their protestations of love are often just empty words.