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How to Attract a Capricorn Man




To attract a Capricorn man, you have to win his respect and admiration by proving you're a cut above the competition. These seven clever seduction tips show you how!


Okay, so it's hardly romantic, but by far the best way of attracting a Capricorn man is to approach things rather like a business deal. Hard-headed and fiercely ambitious, Capricorn men tend to seek out relationships that will help them to get on in life. For this reason, to win a Capricorn man's heart it's important to present yourself as someone who could potentially boost his status and/or his income. Make it clear you could introduce him to some influential people who might be useful to him in furthering his goals, and a Capricorn man will instantly prick up his ears. Never forget, Capricorns are the biggest social climbers in the Zodiac (and often the worst snobs). A bit of shameless namedropping - so what if you have to exaggerate a little - is a fail-safe method of attracting a Capricorn man.


To attract a Capricorn man, show him you're serious minded and just as keen as he is to make a material success of your life. Capricorns are powerfully drawn to people who, like themselves, are career focused and hard working. These guys are far less likely to be interested in you if you give the impression of being feckless and lazy. The more hours you work, the higher you'll climb in a Capricorn's esteem. The more time you waste on - in his view - frivolous pursuits, the less chance you'll have of impressing him. Convince a Capricorn man you're just his type by outlining your professional and material goals for the next ten or so years, and how you intend to fulfill them. Some Star Signs would find this excruciatingly boring, but for a Capricorn man it's a huge turn-on.


It's important always to take the initiative when trying to attract a Capricorn man. Notorious for their cautiousness, regardless of how much they like you, Capricorn men can take forever to make their mind up about whether or not to get involved. If you seriously want this guy, don't make the mistake of sitting back and waiting for him to issue the first invitation. But while it's important to be proactive, don't be too predatory and pushy. If you pursue a Capricorn overly enthusiastically, he's likely to feel 'hunted' and run for cover. These men can never be rushed into anything before they're good and ready, especially not their relationships. So accept the fact that snaring a Capricorn man can be a long and painstaking task, and be prepared to play the waiting game.


In terms of flirting tactics, ignore all the usual rules when trying to attract a Capricorn man. Don't be overly familiar, don't make flippant or risqué comments, and steer clear of anything at all controversial until you know him reasonably well. Emotionally reserved and easily embarrassed, Capricorn men hate being ridiculed, teased or made fun of and - at least initially - prefer to keep things on a fairly formal note. When chatting up one of these guys, avoid superficial topics and focus instead on more serious stuff like work and money. Showing off your knowledge of heavyweight subjects - politics, for example, or the state of the global economy - is an excellent way to impress him. To entice a Capricorn man, first flirt with him intellectually. The physical stuff will follow on in due course.


If you want a Capricorn man to fall in love with you, make a point of behaving in a respectable and dignified way and don't make a pass at him too soon. If you commit the error of coming across as too easily available, you risk being dismissed as just a one-night stand. Because this man takes a somewhat old-fashioned approach to love, if he's genuinely interested in you he will probably prefer to delay physical intimacy for a while. Remember too, that as a hard working Goat he gets more satisfaction out of something he's had to put in a bit of sustained effort for than something that's instantly handed to him on a plate. Where lovemaking is concerned, for the Capricorn man there's just as much pleasure in the anticipation and the foreplay than there is in main event, so don't spoil his fun!


You'll vastly improve your chances of attracting a Capricorn man by appealing to his famously dry sense of humor and making him laugh. At times a bit overly serious and gloomy, a Capricorn man finds it hard to kick back and chill out, so by being that rare person who can bring a smile to his face, you'll soon have him eating out of your hand. You'll need to think carefully, though, about how to approach the challenge. Bawdy comedy isn't his style and may only succeed in making him feel more depressed; ironically, what cheers him up most is gallows humor. Crack a dark joke that highlights the funny side to a potentially worrying situation and you'll gain a Capricorn man's admiration for being someone, like him, who won't ever let life get the better of you. 

If there’s anything at all odd or unconventional about your lifestyle or your background, you’d be wise to keep it under wraps in the first instance if you want to attract a Capricorn man. Because deep down he has solid, conservative values, he’ll feel much more comfortable with you if you’ve had a traditional upbringing, respect the status quo, and are happy to follow a safe, well trodden path in life. Of course, if none of this applies to you, you will have to massage the truth a little! So things not to mention are your eccentric relatives, your drop-out years, or your far-out political views. You have a good chance of attracting a Capricorn man if your ambition is to settle down, make lots of money and raise a nice normal family. If it’s the complete opposite, then sadly he’s probably not for you!  


It’s quite hard to know if you’ve succeeded in winning a Capricorn man's heart. He doesn’t give much away, and even when you’re going steady with him, he has a way of making you feel like your relationship is still on probation. With so much to prove and so little positive feedback, attracting a Capricorn man can feel like hard work at times. But because, when you’ve finally snared him, a Capricorn partner is one of the very best, it’s probably all worth it in the long run!