The Scorpio Man - A Dating Guide


     


photoDATING A SCORPIO MAN - WHAT YOU REALLY NEED TO KNOW!

If you’re dating a Scorpio man, on your guard! Welcome to the sexiest, the most enigmatic and the most power-driven of all the Star Signs – the man least likely to give up, most likely to get his own way and probably the biggest Svengali of the Zodiac.

WHAT IS A SCORPIO MAN LIKE TO DATE?

Does this mean dating a Scorpio man can be a bit scary at times? Well yes, if you’re looking for a safe and unchallenging relationship – and a lover you can keep under the thumb – you might find this sign tough going. If, on the other hand, you prefer dates who stretch you a little – and someone who’s unafraid to stand up to you – then a Scorpio man will give you a good run for your money.

When you're dating a Scorpio man, you'll need to bear in mind that he’s a WATER sign, which means he relates to the world primarily at an emotional level, has a high degree of sensitivity, and tends to be easily hurt. Since Scorpio is also a FIXED sign, at the same time he’s fearful of change and finds it hard to let go. A difficult combination, which he seeks to handle by keeping up his defences and wielding strict control. 

Ruled by Pluto – the planet of transformation and rebirth – Scorpio males have a compulsive desire to shed their skin from time to time and totally re-invent themselves. Men born under the Star Sign Scorpio have the courage to walk ruthlessly away from people and situations they feel they have outgrown, while their amazing willpower means they're rarely tempted to turn back.

Since Scorpio is a sign of extremes, this man never does anything half-heartedly: his decisions are final and binding, his feelings intense and profound. There’s no middle ground with a Scorpio man, and because he sees the world in terms of black and white, he will either love you or hate you. Boost your chances of pleasing him by avoiding coming across as weak, disingenuous or superficial.




WHAT TO DO ON A DATE WITH A SCORPIO MAN

To create any kind of lasting impression on a Scorpio man, it’s essential to make a strong emotional impact on your first date with him. Launch a flagrant assault on his senses by dressing provocatively, wearing your headiest fragrance, and accompanying him to a classy restaurant for a gourmet meal. Don’t forget to respect his strong need for privacy though. Choose somewhere quiet and intimate for a date with a Scorpio man – he’ll be uncomfortable with too many people listening in!

THE PROS AND CONS OF DATING A SCORPIO MAN

As a date, a Scorpio man will wow you with his captivating intensity, his irresistible sex appeal and his air of always being totally in control. On the other hand, you'll probably be less impressed if you find yourself on the receiving end of his blunt-spokenness, his jealousy or one of his little power games.


Because trust doesn’t come easily to the Scorpio man and he tends to be quite suspicious by nature, at first you may find him rather reluctant to get too involved. Once he feels on safe ground though, he will be happy to offer you his unreserved commitment. A tower of strength to those he cares for, this is the man you will feel most able to lean on in times of trouble, because you know you can rely on his loyal and unfaltering support.