How to Attract a Virgo Man




Provided you're prepared to be patient and play it softly, softly, getting a Virgo man to fall in love with you needn't be too difficult. The following five clever tips show you exactly how!


To attract a Virgo man, be prepared to take the lead but don't be too pushy or obvious. Because Virgos are among the shiest men in the Zodiac, you'll be waiting forever if you hold back until a Virgo guy gets round to making the first approach. At the same time, however, you'll need to be quite subtle and low-key in your seduction tactics. Most Virgo men will run a mile if you give the impression you're out to 'get' them. A clever way of attracting this guy's interest without making him feel threatened is to ask for his practical advice or assistance. Down to earth and logically minded, Virgo males love to fix things and find it hard to refuse a cry for help from a damsel in distress. Best hold your fire when trying to seduce a Virgo man. Reel him in slowly and gently by first cultivating him as a friend.


 The Virgo man is a perfectionist - so to attract him you'll need to appear as perfect as possible! Make a big effort to be clean, tidy and well presented. Many Virgo guys are neat freaks and will be turned off if you seem grubby, dishevelled or disorganized. Smart, well groomed and healthy is the look you're aiming for, and be sure to pay special attention to your nails, hair and shoes. Virgo men have an all-seeing eye for detail that will pick up on every single little flaw in your appearance and note it down against you. Don't make the mistake of vamping it up or dressing too provocatively. To the typical Virgo man, overt sexiness can seem cheap and tasteless. For this reason, strong fragrances and over-the-top make-up are a big no-no. Play it sweet, demure and coyly flirtatious to win a Virgo man's heart.


Because the Virgo man hates all kinds of excess and falseness, remember that less is more when you're trying to win his heart. Avoid giving him lots of gushing compliments, which he's likely to find shallow and insincere (and certainly don't expect any in return). A few words of honest appreciation will suffice to let a Virgo guy know you're interested, and although he may brusquely dismiss them with a self-deprecating comment, secretly he'll be thrilled you find him attractive. He tends to respond well to humor, but dirty jokes and rumbustious belly laughs aren't really his scene. Virgo men have a great sense of irony, and can be very sarcastic in a highly amusing way. Make a Virgo laugh by appealing to his clever dry wit, and you'll massively boost your chances of seducing this guy.


No matter how you're feeling, try to stay cool and self-composed. Virgo men tend to be very rational, often feel uncomfortable with strong displays of emotion and have no time for drama queens. Unloading your emotional baggage onto a Virgo man you don't know very well is a good recipe for scaring him away. He'll be more attracted to you if you show him you have a sensible head on your shoulders and can talk about things in a calm and logical way. Virgo males are impressed by intelligence and commonsense rather more than they are by good looks. Because this guy takes a somewhat old-fashioned approach to love and has impeccable manners, he may prefer to delay physical intimacy until he knows you reasonably well. For this reason  it's a mistake to push for any kind of sex on a first date.


Don't mistake the Virgo male's dispassionate attitude for lack of interest. Because  he's highly analytical by nature, regardless of how much he likes you he'll take a while to make his mind up about whether or not to get involved. Virgo guys are often loners and can manage quite well for extended periods without any romance in their lives. Getting a Virgo man to fall in love with you can be a long and painstaking task, so be prepared to play the waiting game. Be creative in finding ways to spend time with him that won't make him feel trapped and panicked. All the better if they don't require him to spend any money. Since most Virgo men tend to be a bit mean when it comes to shelling out on dates, they can never turn down a free invitation. Do you want him enough to be willing to foot the bill?


Seducing a Virgo man sexually isn’t actually as hard as one might think. This guy is nowhere near as virginal as his Star Sign’s name might suggest and as a dedicated sexual technician, he needs all the practice he can get! But conquering a Virgo man’s heart is a much bigger challenge. Some say this Star Sign is far too pragmatic and level-headed to be capable of ever falling deeply in love. The challenge you face lies in discovering for yourself whether or not this is true!