How to Attract a Gemini Man




Seducing a Gemini man is fairly easy, provided you understand his mercurial nature and don't try to get too close. The following five clever tips show you how!


Attracting a Gemini man's attention actually isn't very difficult. A butterfly creature always on the lookout for excitement, he's easily drawn to anyone different or new. What's much harder is keeping a Gemini man's interest in you going, as he quickly gets restless and bored. You'll need to be good at creating an ongoing sense of excitement to keep this guy romantically on his toes. Try to constantly re-invent yourself, for example by changing your 'look', style and appearance, so he gets the sense he's talking to someone he's never met before. The Gemini man thrives on variety, especially in his love life, and hates monotonous routine. Make him want to spend more time with you by acting spontaneously and coming up with exciting last minute plans he'll find impossible to resist.


It's essential to be a good flirt in order to seduce a Gemini man. Of course you're unlikely to be able to match this guy's own flirting skills, since he's a master of the game. But you'll at least need to be capable of holding your own when it comes to love banter, so clue up on some good flirt- and come-back lines. Teasing this guy a little and playing hard to get are seduction tactics he's likely to respond well to since he sees love as an enjoyable game. The truth is a Gemini man never likes to take love too seriously (even when he's in a committed relationship). For this reason, the biggest mistake you can make with a Gemini man is to come across as too earnest or desperate. If there's no fun element on offer in a relationship, he won't be interested and will quickly be on his way.


The average Gemini man will run a mile from anyone foolish enough to think they can tie him down. So to be in with a chance of getting him to fall in love with you, you have to give him lots of space. This requires an element of trust on your part of course, which might not be easy with this silver-tongued charmer, but at the end of the day you have little choice. Acting possesively with a Gemini or pressurizing him into commitments before he's ready will have the effect of repelling rather than attracting this guy. Avoid showing signs of jealousy (however you may be feeling) or asking too many prying questions, and be flexible when he wants to change his plans (which is likely to happen quite frequently!). Gregarious and free-spirited, he's not someone you'll ever be able to 'own'.


A Gemini man is attracted to sociable types like himself, who are good mixers and have a wide circle of friends. It will be a lot harder for you to fit into his lifestyle if you're the ultra-shy or reclusive type who doesn't like company and would rather spend the evening at home with a good book. Because Mr Gemini is always looking to widen his social network, you'll score lots of points with him by introducing him to new contacts and acquaintances. A big conversationalist who loves to be up to date with all the latest information, the Gemini man is magnetically attracted by news and gossip. With this in mind, you'll make yourself indispensable to him if you swot up on the topics he's particularly interested in and keep him fed with all the juiciest tidbits. Many Geminis rate a good chat even above sex!


You don't need to be outstandingly good looking to attract a Gemini man. Far more important, in his eyes, is a sparkling personality and a great sense of humor. Rather than waste your time titivating your appearance in an effort to seduce him, focus instead on polishing your wit and being funny and entertaining. Send him amusing emails at frequent intervals, keep everything light and fluffy and appeal to his inner child (Gemini men never really grow up). It's okay to be as silly and frivolous as you want with a Gemini man: all you're trying to do is give him a bit of a giggle. Subjects to avoid are anything emotionally heavy or depressing that he tends to find difficult to handle. If you want a Gemini man to fall in love with you, fill his life with happiness, laughter and fun. 


There’s no big deal if all you really want is to get a Gemini man into bed, or entice him into a brief love affair. Capturing his heart for good could well be a much bigger challenge for you, though. The jury’s out on whether or not a Gemini man is ever actually capable of falling deeply in love. So at worst you may discover your Gemini guy simply isn’t the romantic type – or at best his understanding of what it means to be ‘in love’ is very different to your own.