How to Attract a Gemini Man


   


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HOW TO ATTRACT A GEMINI MAN


Attracting a Gemini man is fairly easy, provided you understand his mercurial nature and don't try to get too close. These seven clever seduction tips show you how!

1)  RING THE CHANGES

Attracting a Gemini man's attention actually isn't very difficult. A butterfly creature always on the lookout for excitement, he's easily drawn to anyone different or new. What's much harder is keeping a Gemini man's interest in you going, as he quickly gets restless and bored. You'll need to be good at creating an ongoing sense of excitement to keep this guy romantically on his toes. Try to constantly re-invent yourself, for example by changing your 'look', style and appearance, so he gets the sense he's talking to someone he's never met before. The Gemini man thrives on variety, especially in his love life, and hates monotonous routine. Make him want to spend more time with you by acting spontaneously and coming up with exciting last minute plans he'll find impossible to resist.




2)  FLIRT LIKE CRAZY

It's essential to be a good flirt in order to attract a Gemini man. Of course you're unlikely to be able to match this guy's own flirting skills, since he's a master of the game. But you'll at least need to be capable of holding your own when it comes to love banter, so clue up on some good flirt- and come-back lines. Teasing this guy a little and playing hard to get are seduction tactics he's likely to respond well to since he sees love as an enjoyable game. The truth is a Gemini man never likes to take love too seriously (even when he's in a committed relationship). For this reason, the biggest mistake you can make when trying to attract a Gemini man is to come across as too earnest or desperate. If there's no fun element on offer in a relationship, he won't be interested and will quickly be on his way.

3)  GIVE HIM LOTS OF SPACE

The average Gemini man will run a mile from anyone foolish enough to think they can tie him down. So to be in with a chance of getting him to fall in love with you, you have to give him lots of space. This requires an element of trust on your part of course, which might not be easy with this silver-tongued charmer, but at the end of the day you have little choice if you want to hold onto him. Acting possessively with a Gemini man or pressurizing him into commitments before he's ready will have the effect of repelling rather than attracting him. Gregarious and free-spirited, a Gemini man isn't someone you'll ever be able to 'own'. So avoid showing signs of jealousy (however you may be feeling) and think carefully before asking too many prying questions about his love life. 


4)  BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST

A Gemini man is the chatty type (some might even say a bit too garrulous), and although he'll be happy if you let him do most of the talking, he'll be more attracted to you if you hold up your end of the conversation and offer him lots of stimulating feedback. He doesn't want you to be a yes person though, and agree with him about everything. Because he's turned on by a bit of verbal sparring, he'll love it if you challenge his ideas and opinions, especially if you do so in an intelligent way. A big news buff who loves to be up to date with all the latest information, the Gemini man is magnetically attracted by stories and gossip. So with this in mind, you'll make yourself indispensable to him if you swot up on the topics he's particularly interested in and keep him fed with all the juiciest tidbits.

5)  MAKE HIM LAUGH

You don't need to be outstandingly good looking to attract a Gemini man. Far more important, in his eyes, is a sparkling personality and a great sense of humor. Rather than waste your time titivating your appearance in an effort to seduce him, focus instead on polishing your wit and being funny and entertaining. Send him amusing emails at frequent intervals, keep everything light and fluffy and appeal to his inner child (Gemini men never really grow up). It's okay to be as silly and frivolous as you want with a Gemini man: all you're trying to do is give him a bit of a giggle. Subjects to avoid are anything emotionally heavy or depressing that he tends to find difficult to handle. If you want a Gemini man to fall in love with you, fill his life with happiness, laughter and fun. 




6)  BE ADAPTABLE

You'll increase your chances of attracting a Gemini man by coming across as easygoing, laid back and adaptable. You'll considerably reduce them by being demanding, trying to hold him to his promises, and kicking up a big fuss when he lets you down. You should expect frequent changes of plans and regular no-shows if you're dating a Gemini man, so it's important to be able to pretend you don't care - even if you have to put on a big act to hide your disappointment. A Gemini man isn't the dependable type, period. For him that's not a big deal because he considers his unpredictability to be one of his most enticing traits and a major part of his mercurial charm. And he knows that if you're his kind of person, it won't be a big deal for you either.

7)  INTRODUCE HIM TO YOUR FRIENDS

The more interesting people you can introduce your Gemini man to, the more attractive you will appear to him. Okay, so being his networking buddy may not be exactly what you had in mind. Perhaps too you're a little nervous about sharing him with all your friends, especially if you're the jealous type and worried he may end up liking one of them better than you. But the truth is that by showing him you're someone with a big social circle you're proving your popularity - and in his eyes that makes you very appealing. Loners and stay-at-homes don't interest him much. What you're really waiting for, of course, is for your Gemini man to introduce you in turn to his own friends and family. When that happens it's the clearest sign ever that he's definitely into you!

THE GEMINI MAN SEDUCTION CHALLENGE

There’s no big deal if all you really want is to get a Gemini man into bed, or entice him into a brief love affair. Capturing his heart for good could well be a much bigger challenge for you, though. The jury’s out on whether or not a Gemini man is ever actually capable of falling deeply in love. So at worst you may discover your Gemini guy simply isn’t the romantic type – or at best his understanding of what it means to be ‘in love’ is very different to your own.