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How to Attract an Aquarius Man




It's not too difficult to attract an Aquarius man, provided you don't act like you're out to tie him down or possess him. These seven clever seduction tips show you exactly how!


Because the Aquarius man is magnetically drawn to people who stand out from the crowd, to gain his attention it's important to come across as a bit different from everyone else he knows. Nothing impresses the Aquarius man more than originality, so the number one tip for attracting this guy is to prove you're very much your own person, not just one of the sheep. It's good to dress fashionably for an Aquarius man, but he'll find you a lot more interesting if you put together your own individual look rather than just following the latest trends. If there's anything unusual about your background, work or lifestyle, don't be afraid to shout it out loud and clear - it will make an Aquarius man much keener to get to know you. You can never be too off-beat or wacky to attract an Aquarius man.


Approach an Aquarius man first on a friendship level and you'll boost your chances of eventually winning his love. Aquarians are excellent mixers and make friends with people of all kinds very easily. They're less comfortable in intimate one-on-one relationships, which they sometimes find a bit restrictive, and can be notoriously reluctant to commit. Most Aquarian romances tend to start out as friendships, then gradually evolve into something more serious. Put another way: Aquarius men will rarely enter into a love affair with someone who isn't already a good friend. Don't make things difficult for yourself by trying to jump into bed with this guy too soon. Play it cool, be patient, and keep things on a strictly platonic basis until you're ready to make your big move.


The worst mistake you can make when trying to attract an Aquarius man is to pose a threat to his precious freedom by appearing too pushy and demanding. The big rebels of the Zodiac, Aquarians answer to nobody and won't tolerate any kind of control or manipulation. In fact the more you attempt to pin an Aquarius man down, the more likely he is to run in the opposite direction. Traditional seduction tactics, such as trying to win this guy's love by making him jealous, are a complete waste of time here. Probably the least possessive of all the Signs and the most likely to believe in semi-open relationships, an Aquarius man simply won't care if you're seeing someone else - he can take it or leave it. In return, he'll expect you to butt out of his private life and allow him to do exactly as he pleases.


To attract an Aquarius man, don't come across as too mushy and sentimental. Logical and fairly detached by nature, these guys find emotions hard to relate to. They tend to feel uncomfortable with people who openly express their feelings, so if you're the excitable type, or perhaps a bit weepy by nature, you'd better get a grip on yourself fast. Put an Aquarius man at ease by avoiding emotionally charged issues and appealing instead to his intellect. Because good mental rapport means a lot to this guy, he's looking for an intelligent and level headed partner who can discuss any topic calmly and rationally without losing their cool. If you're trying to attract an Aquarius man, dumping your emotional baggage on him is a big no-no. So never mention your problematic breakups or your exes from hell!


An excellent tactic for snaring an Aquarius man is to constantly surprise him. Men born under this Star Sign need ongoing stimulation in their relationships to prevent them from getting bored. When the initial thrill of a romantic encounter is over, an Aquarius man may start looking elsewhere for excitement - unless you play your cards very carefully. To keep this guy on the hook, don't reveal everything about yourself right from the beginning. Instead keep him guessing and let him gradually discover new things about you he wasn't aware of, over a period of time. Ring the changes with what you do when you're together and how and where you make love. To win an Aquarius man's heart, never let your relationship with him lapse into a dull and monotonous routine.


Of course you want to impress him, but you’ll never attract an Aquarius man if you blow your own trumpet too loudly. It's a mistake, then, to spend the whole time talking about yourself and your amazing achievements without asking him a single question about himself. As the most egalitarian of all the Star Signs, the Aquarius man hates egomaniacs. So don’t behave like one by giving yourself too many airs and graces, wanting everything on your own terms, and acting like the entire world revolves around you. An Aquarius man will immediately mark you down as a narcissist if he suspects you’re fishing for compliments by prompting him to say nice things about you. Be warned – this guy doesn’t do praise and flattery, and he’s unlikely to find you very attractive if that’s all you seem to want from him.

Because an Aquarius man is the ultimate social animal, in order to attract him you’ll have to prove you’re also a big people person. So tell him all about your friends and acquaintances, especially the more interesting ones. Talk to him about your local community and your part in it, both now and in the past. Most importantly, give him a detailed account of all the good causes you support and the social and environmental changes you believe in. You’ll soar up in his estimation by letting him know what you think is most wrong with the world and how you’d like to put it right. Worried about sounding too earnest and worthy? Not a problem with an Aquarius man – he’ll find you so much more interesting than if you act like you just don’t care.


Fluttering your eyelashes won’t help you much here. Because, for the Aquarius man, love is very much a head thing, you have to focus all your seduction efforts on capturing his mind rather than just his heart. Simple, you might think, but actually not that easy. While you don’t have to be a genius, you do have to prove you have a good grasp of all the latest hot topics and trending ideas. Strange though it may seem, that’s the best way of lighting an Aquarius man’s fire.