BREAKUPS AND TAURUS

 

WHY MIGHT YOU WANT TO BREAK UP WITH A TAURUS? 

What possible cause might you have for wanting to break up with an easygoing and reliable Taurus? Well, perhaps it’s because you long for more thrills and excitement than what’s on offer from the solid and steady Bull. Taurus’s extreme resistance to change is a key reason why their lovers decide to break up with them. The security you once valued in your relationship with a Taurus can eventually turn out to be incredibly boring when it gets in the way of you doing what you want to do.

HOW SHOULD YOU GO ABOUT BREAKING UP WITH A TAURUS? 

Once you’ve decided to break up with a Taurus, how do you go about it in the nicest possible way? Here the important thing to keep in mind is to proceed very slowly and gradually and avoid the breakup coming as too much of a shock to them. Taurus reacts particularly badly to anything sudden and unexpected. So be sure to give them plenty of warning that you think your relationship is approaching the end of the road and aim to fade out of their life little by little rather than making a clean break.

WHAT SHOULD YOU EXPECT IF YOU BREAK UP WITH A TAURUS?

Be prepared for the process of breaking up with a Taurus to be unusually slow and protracted. Because they’re very fixed by nature and their stubbornness means they don’t give up easily, you’ll find it takes quite a long time to finally get rid of a Taurus. Accepting it’s over is exceptionally difficult for the average Taurus. In fact they’re one of the most determined and persistent of all the Star Signs in their efforts to win back an ex.
 

REASONS FOR A TAURUS BREAKING UP WITH YOU

Because they’re a feet-on-the-ground Earth Sign, a Taurus’s decision to break up with you is more likely to be guided by material considerations than emotional ones. This long suffering Star Sign will stoically endure all kinds of relationship traumas – perhaps even infidelity.  But if a relationship isn’t working on a practical level, no matter how many others good things it has going for it, slowly but surely they’ll take the necessary steps to bring it to an end.

A Taurus is more likely to break up with you if you’ve overlooked the key basics that make a relationship work for this Sign. Good food and good sex in that order, are all a Taurus really needs to be happy –  and you can rest assured that they most definitely won’t be happy if either are in short supply. You may also have made things far too complicated for this simple soul. Playing manipulative power games they can’t win or understand is often the kiss of death to a relationship with a Taurus.

But perhaps the biggest relationship dealbreaker for the average Taurus is the discovery that their partner has been seriously irresponsible in the handling of joint finances and possessions. Many Taureans are equally, or even more, attached to their money and belongings than they are
to their Significant Other! 

HOW A TAURUS IS LIKELY TO BREAK UP WITH YOU

Taurus’s high tolerance threshold, coupled with their legendary patience, makes them capable of putting up with an awful lot from an errant partner before they decide they can’t take any more. But once a Taurus has finally resolved to break up with you, their decision is likely to be irreversible. As the most ‘fixed’ Sign in the Zodiac, they rarely change their mind.

Because Taurus, more than any other Star Sign, has their feet firmly anchored in the ground, they won’t want to waste any time or energy on emotional dramas. In breaking up, their main focus will be on sorting out all the practical issues that have previously tied you together, especially the financial ones, and which now need to be carefully unravelled.


HOW TO WIN BACK A TAURUS

Once you’ve broken up with a Taurus, don’t expect to be able to win them back in the twinkling of an eye. Just as it takes a long time for Taurus to resolve to break up, it will also take quite a while for them to cool down and be ready to get back together again. So you’ll need to take a leaf out of their book and show a lot of patience.

In the meantime strengthen your chances of reconciliation by offering them little material bribes and sweeteners. To win back your Taurus ex after a breakup, try tempting them with offers of gourmet dinners, a great massage, or an ostentatiously expensive gift. Because yes, with Taurus, sometimes money really can buy you love!

An iffy tactic that may or may not help you to win back a Taurus consists of trying to make them jealous. Because Taurus ranks as one of the most possessive of all the Star Signs, witnessing you flirting with somebody new may alert them to what they’re missing and make them decide they want you back. But you also risk confirming their worst suspicions that you’re disloyal and untrustworthy and that they’ve made the right decision in breaking up with you.