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Breakups and Pisces


   


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BREAKUPS AND PISCES





WHY MIGHT YOU WANT TO BREAK UP WITH A PISCES?


The most common reason for wanting to break up with a Pisces is their basic lack of integrity. This can take many forms, ranging from persistent evasiveness and refusal to be pinned down, to the worst case scenarios of deliberate lying, cheating and infidelity. If you’ve been with a Pisces for quite a while, you’re probably used to dealing with their problem with honesty. But maybe the time has arrived when you simply can’t take it any more.  

Another cause of breakups with Pisces’ is their characteristic reluctance towards accepting responsibility. A healthy relationship requires both people to pull their weight equally – something Pisces isn’t always able to do. If you’ve been bearing the main burdens in the relationship, and your Pisces partner has been constantly wriggling out of their duties and obligations, you may eventually tire of always having to be the sensible one. 


HOW SHOULD YOU GO ABOUT BREAKING UP WITH A PISCES?

Be warned - when you dump a Pisces you run a major risk of breaking their heart. Because Pisces is probably the most emotionally sensitive and vulnerable of all the Star Signs, they’re likely to be badly hurt by a breakup not of their own choosing. So tread very carefully and do everything you can to minimize the degree of pain and suffering you may be causing them. 

It’s important to break the news very gently, and to avoid wounding their already very fragile self-esteem by pointing out all their faults and making them feel like a failure. Resorting to that old adage ‘it’s not you, it’s me’ is the kindest way to end a relationship with a Pisces, even if you know it’s not true.

First and foremost though, you have to actually pin a Pisces down to tell them you’re breaking up with them. Because their powerful intuition will alert them to what’s coming, they’ll forever be finding cunning ways of evading a final showdown. 
                                                                                           
WHAT SHOULD YOU EXPECT IF YOU BREAK UP WITH A PISCES?

When you break up with a Pisces, be prepared for them to pile on the agony! Because Pisces excels at playing the role of victim, they do a great poor-me act. As the biggest emotional blackmailers of the Zodiac, they know exactly how to play on your sympathies and make you feel bad, not matter how hard you have tried to take their feelings into account.

Pisces’ habitual response to any kind of distressing situation, including a breakup, is to bury their head in the sand, refuse to accept that it’s really happening and find an effective escape mechanism. Organizing the arrangements for a breakup with a Pisces isn't easy, due in part to their general muddle-headedness and in part to their tendency to run away from their responsibilities.  

Of all the Star Signs, Pisces is most likely to plead and beg for a reconciliation in the wake of a breakup. Because most Pisces’ don’t have particularly big egos, they aren’t afraid of humiliating themselves in order to get back with you. 


REASONS FOR A PISCES BREAKING UP WITH YOU

When a Pisces breaks up with you it’s often because they feel you’ve been bullying them and they can’t tolerate it any longer. Because Pisces is so malleable, so uncomplaining and so bad at defending themselves, it’s tempting to ride roughshod over them. As the most forgiving of all the Star Signs, Pisces generally puts up with more than its fair share of shabby treatment. But even a Pisces has their limits, and if they break up with you it’s usually because you’ve abused their good-heartedness by pushing them around once too often. 

By putting too much pressure on a Pisces, for example by forcing them to take on more responsibilities than they can comfortably handle, you increase the chances of them breaking up with you. Never back a Pisces into a corner with no room for manoeuvre, or they may feel they have no option but to cut and run. 

Persistently trampling on a Pisces’ delicate feelings is another sure way of encouraging them into breaking up with you. Because less sensitive Star Signs can fail to appreciate a Pisces’ extreme vulnerability, they may be guilty of grievously wounding their feelings on an ongoing basis. A long-suffering Pisces will uncomplainingly tolerate all manner of insults and put-downs seemingly forever. But then, unbeknown to you, the day arrives when they’ve had enough.

HOW A PISCES IS LIKELY TO BREAK UP WITH YOU

You’ll rarely have much warning that a Pisces is going to break up with you. You’ll just wake up one day to discover they’ve done a disappearing act. Because Pisces can’t handle confrontation, they’d rather run away from a challenging situation than stand and fight their corner. That makes it hard for you to achieve closure since you may never find out why they’re leaving you or get a chance to persuade them to stay.

You can expect a Pisces’ breakup arrangements to be at best disorganized and at worst totally chaotic. So it’s down to you to make sure all your joint money and belongings, and any other kind of connections you may have, are properly sorted out with no loose ends.


HOW TO WIN BACK A PISCES

Pisces is the most forgiving of all the Star Signs, so your best way to win them back is to apologize profusely for whatever it was that caused them to break up with you. As long as you’re totally sincere in your expression of your regrets, a Pisces is likely to take pity on you and give the relationship another go.

Sending an apologetic love poem to a Pisces is a good way of breaking down their defences and winning them back after a breakup. Focus on romancing them all over again and pile on the mush and the sentimentality. If they still love you, a Pisces won’t be able to resist!  

However, the craftiest tactic for winning back a Pisces who has broken up with you is to make them feel guilty. Because Pisces is highly sensitive to others’ suffering, if they sense they have really hurt you, they’re likely to beat themselves up about it and do almost anything to make amends. Take a leaf out of Pisces’ book by resorting to a little bit of emotional manipulation and there’s a good chance of getting back with them again. 





 THREE WAYS TO AVOID BREAKUPS WITH PISCES

• Respect their sensitivity, treat them gently and offer them lots of emotional support.
• Double check on all facts and information - things aren't always quite how they seem. 
• Never attempt to back them into a corner - too much pressure will drive them away.